I didn’t think the time would come where I would be writing a wrap-up on Cate’s Madrid adventure. Or, am I? When I said my goodbyes to Cate in June (a goodbye I won’t forget), I knew our time to laugh together would come again soon but what I didn’t expect was that it would be in Florida! Yes, that’s right- Florida! The very place that ignited a first conversation over a year ago and started our friendship. It was great to catch up and see each other outside of Madrid. Read along and see what she has planned next!
Meet Cate, the rock:
LT: Your main goal in coming to Madrid was to learn Spanish. How did you do?
CD: My primary goal in coming to Spain was to learn enough Spanish to be able to have a basic conversation and, if I really focus on the concept of “basic,” I think I achieved that. Barely. I certainly added a huge amount of vocabulary and some grammar but I was probably more than half-way through my time there before I really even started to try to string together actual sentences. As it is for so many struggling second-language learners, getting out of my own head is my biggest obstacle.
LT: You also spoke about traveling. Did you get to see many countries while living abroad?
CD: I was much more successful with my goal of traveling! I’m pretty proud of this list, so here it is… I went to: London, Paris, Copenhagen, Gibraltar, all through Ireland, Amsterdam, spent an hour in Tangier (crazy story) and saw a lot of Spain by car and train. Being able to see so much of Europe in such a short time was absolutely mind-blowing.
LT: In your previous interview, you mentioned that you were speaking and teaching English most of the time. What can you tell us about learning Spanish through immersion?
CD: The process of learning Spanish, or attempting to, was not what I had expected. To be completely (and embarrassingly) honest I thought that merely by living in Spain for 10 months, the language would somehow seep into my brain and I’d be speaking it without even realizing how it happened! Wrong. First of all, I found the 4-week immersion class to be practically useless, for me anyway. It was too much all at once and I wasn’t able to digest virtually any of it. What progress I did make came from private, weekly lessons and the homework I was given. And when everything was said and done, the ONLY thing that caused any of it to “stick” in my brain was actually using it (with Spanish friends.) Some people are gifted with the ability to easily pick up new languages… I’m not one of those people but I keep plugging away.
LT: What was your most memorable moment in class? Do you miss your students?
CD: There are a few students that I miss and one that I have kept in touch with. For the most part, however, I didn’t form any real bonds with most of the kids. We, as auxiliars, are strictly forbidden to speak Spanish with the students and the language barrier at my school was virtually impenetrable. I’m sorry to report that the most memorable occasions were all extraordinarily negative. There were some extremely challenging students that created some unforgettable scenes. Unfortunate for everyone involved.
LT: What do you miss most about San Lorenzo de El Escorial?
CD: I miss everything about San Lorenzo except for the ubiquitous dog shit. I miss being able to walk to everything, I miss the vistas of the mountains and the monastery, the cheap whiskey and wine and the antiquity of it all. It’s a magical little town.
LT: What have you been doing this summer?
CD: This summer… what have I been doing? It was so disorienting to be back that it took me several weeks to really feel ‘normal’ and completely unpack (*shame*.) I went up to spend a few days with my sister in Cape Cod, I’ve helped one daughter and her husband a bit around their house, helped the other one move to Boston for a new job and been driving for Uber on the weekends.
LT: I think we all want to know… Will you return to San Lorenzo for Round 2?
CD: It looks as if I am going back, for a few reasons. First of all I have a job there and that’s more than I can say for here. Secondly, I’ll have medical insurance there and that’s a huge deal for an old broad like me. Then there’s the Spanish that I still want to learn and the lifestyle of Spain that I enjoy so much. I’m just not done “adventuring” yet.
And, here we go! Of the people I interviewed, Cate was certainly the one I thought would have a different ending. When I asked her for her quote for her second interview, she provided this one, “I stopped telling myself that I’m lost. I’m not. I’m on a road with no destination, I’m just driving with hope that I’ll find a place that I like and I’ll stay there. I’m not lost, I’m on my way.” – Ahunnaya
After one year of knowing Cate and having the pleasure to call her my friend, I can say that she has found her way and is headed back to her “place” called San Lorenzo to continue her Dreams Abroad.
Thank you to our readers who have followed my Teach Abroad Series this year. Stay tuned for what our team of writers will be covering this 2017-2018 school year!